Consistent sex is probably one of the top three greatest benefits that come from being a committed relationship. While the idea itself is good on its own, what makes it so great is the person you get to have it with. Which is why us, ladies, need to make sure we’re not just giving it … Read more
Most of us have read enough and been through enough to know the signs to look out for that indicate a relationship’s gone toxic. We pretty instinctively recognize a dating red flag when it pops up on the first meeting with someone, and consciously try to avoid the codependency that comes with losing our identity to our partner. But how do … Read more
Bad advice is cheap. Good advice is expensive. This is very obvious in today’s world where many of us have been drowned in unnecessary complexities because of some so-called piece of advice we heeded to. Who and what you pay heed to is as important as anything you can imagine because they influence how you … Read more
The Beatles said that love is all we need, while another old saying has it that love makes the whole world go round. But while it may seem that other people are in love everywhere you go, you might be wondering just what in the heck you need to do to find your true love. … Read more
We’ve all been through it before. Your partner asks you what’s wrong, and you say, “nothing” and give them attitude for the next hour. You try to let it go, but after time passes, he says something, and you somehow contort it into a conversation about why you’re actually pissed off We can turn almost … Read more
By Kobina Ansah What a year it has been! So soon, the curtains have been drawn on another amazing year. The ups, downs, tears and laughter have all made this year such a memorable one. In every experience, what matters most are the lessons we learn. As a matter of fact, what happens to us … Read more
It’s amazing how many couples put a huge amount of time and effort into planning their wedding, but so few put any time at all into planning the marriage itself. Things like, how are you going to manage your finances, who’s going to do what around the home, and when they are going to have … Read more
Marriage is a pretty big step for anyone. You are committing yourself to sharing your life with another person, come what may, and being faithful to that person for the rest of your life. Keeping that commitment or a lifetime is not always going to be easy, so you need to do whatever you can … Read more
You’ve been thinking about it nonstop for weeks, and now you’re sure you’re ready – it’s time to end the relationship. Sometimes, telling someone that you want to start seeing other people is even more painful than getting dumped yourself, but there are ways to go about it and still hold your head high. Bringing … Read more
Bad advice is cheap. Good advice is expensive. This is very obvious in today’s world where many of us have been drowned in unnecessary complexities because of some so-called piece of advice we heeded to. Who and what you pay heed to is as important as anything you can imagine because they influence how you … Read more
This is one of the concerns of every teenager; they wish their parents would open up to them on this before they start encountering and accepting ‘I love you’. But many don’t get this access because their parents are not their friends. Since it’s hard to open up to someone who is not your friend, … Read more
One morning, you’ll wake up and check your phone and see a wedding invitation from your friend and go like; “ow nooo that can’t happen!” It’s not that you’re disappointed a friend of yours is getting married. The fact is, this friend and yourself are the only ones left in your circle that are not … Read more
You’ve been dating for a year or two (or three) and keep fending off the “so when are you two going to get married” question from well-meaning friends and family. You are sure you’ve found The One… but have you? Sometimes, after so many years together, you assume he has to be. That’s what I … Read more
It’s just like Old Man Winter to come along and snow us in, prevent us from getting to work on time – and remind us how single we really are. During the cold season, you get to see your friends loved up on Christmas Day, proposing on New Years Eve and announcing their first child … Read more
Dear Christian unmarried ladies, let us look at the intricacies of a relationship with a human male, beginning with the challenging issue of physical intimacy. The world has somehow gotten us to believe that the way to a man’s heart is through his body. But the bigger lie is buried in the centre of that … Read more
Driving in this part of our world can be a lot of hell. In the early morning rush hour, every driver may want to cut corners to reach their destination as early as they can. Others may jump the red light and be penalized. A few others may try new shorter routes and mistakenly end … Read more
Each and every day, all of us are faced with decisions to make. Whether we’re deciding if it’s a good idea to send a follow-up text to a guy who hasn’t answered or not, or whether we’re deciding if we should go change careers or not, life is basically made or broken according to the … Read more
There are countless movies that start off with the idea of “friends with benefits,” but you know how all those movies end? With those former friends turned buddies falling in love and presumably living happily ever after. Why? Because once you start reaping sexual benefits, you’re no longer just friends. 1. Friends don’t have sex. … Read more